Relationship Healing

It’s obvious that you love and respect each other.

And yet, you find yourselves fighting over the stupidest little things.

You started talking about one thing, and now it’s snowballed into something else completely. That wasn’t even what you wanted to talk about when you brought it up!

Like, how is this suddenly such an issue?

No matter how you try to say it, they just don’t get it.

They never used to frustrate you at all.

Now you’re beginning to get annoyed at yourself, wondering about your own patience level? Maybe you’re taking things too personally?

But seriously, how many times do you have to tell them the same thing?

Feeling like roommates instead of lovers?

And it’s not fair that in all your years in school, you didn’t learn how to navigate the hard times with your partner.

You want to make your relationship the best it can be.

Why is it so hard?

Imagine feeling profoundly understood by your partner.

What if you could have a productive discussion where neither of you is assuming the worst? And you’re both acting in line with the level of love and respect you have for each other.

They actually hear you.

They finally get it.

That’s where I come in.

I’ll teach you tools to break the communication patterns that aren’t working, so that you can show up as your best selves to your relationship.

Then you can really value your time together and feel like your relationship is a place of solace instead of frustration.

Let’s face it: What you’re doing now may be causing more harm than good.

So, let’s get you in the know.

Couples come to me when they’re dating, engaged, living together, or married.

Whether you’re dealing with a communication difficulties, trust issues, jealousy, lack of emotional intimacy, or sexual issues…

I’d love to help you with wherever you are in your relationship.

Everyone is welcome!

Whether you’re in a straight couple or are in a queer relationship, I’m happy to work with you. LGBTQIAP+ folks: you’ll be welcomed and fully embraced.

I can be helpful for folks who are considering opening the relationship for the first time, and I also love working with folks who are already monogamish, swingers, poly, or involved in some form of consensual non-monogamy.

Some couples who work with me like to have a dedicated space to discuss their relationship, even if things aren’t necessarily “the worst.” And I’ll gladly hold that space and be the objective 3rd person facilitator you’re looking for.