You Deserve an Amazing Sex Life

Helping Women & Couples Discover Peace and Pleasure

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Why isn’t the sex part working out?!

When you try to talk about it, you get nowhere. Just left looking at each other for an answer that neither of you has. Or going to separate rooms because it feels so hopeless.

And, let’s be real…it’s awkward!

You love and respect each other.

Sex is supposed to be fun, right?

There’s a vicious cycle here: You want to try again, but last time was sooo weird, and you’re afraid you’ll be rejected or completely misunderstood.

It’s easier to not talk about it, but you know that isn’t working.

Let’s face it, nothing is working.

Imagine actually looking forward to sex.

The longer you wait, the further and further you are from what you really want: a sex life that’s just as fulfilling as other parts of your life!

Sex can be very pleasurable! Yes, even for you.

With my knowledge and understanding of this frustrating and confusing cycle, I can help you.

Hi, I’m Dassy.

(rhymes with posse)

I love working with women and couples.

You’re here because you’re hoping to improve your relationship or your sex life, or you’re a woman looking for a supportive space just for you.

Feeling stuck, confused, or frustrated, you know it can’t go on like this for much longer. I can help you connect more deeply with yourself or your partner.

Let’s discover the best version of yourself and your relationship.

More About Me

You’re ready for sex to be hot again…

…or for the first time!

This relationship is the best you’ve ever had. To friends, colleagues, and even on social media, y’all seem to have it made!

Sadly, the sex life is nowhere near where it used to be or where you’d like it to be.

Combining my understanding presence with classic sex therapy techniques and mindfulness methods, I can help you improve your sex life.

What if the sex is mostly good?

But you need help with communication and rebuilding trust.

You’re tired of not feeling understood. I mean, how many times do you have to say the same thing for them to finally get it?

I can help you feel more understood by your partner.

This is a safe space, just for you.

If you don’t want to share your safe space with your partner, that’s totally fine!

You’re a woman who needs a supportive force in your life, where you can talk about anything and not feel judged.

You can work on sexual and relationship issues, or simply have a place to vent and explore your own authenticity.

Discover the best version of yourself and new levels of peace and pleasure in your life.

Set up a free 20-minute phone consultation.

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What Clients Have to Say

Dassy is a gifted healer. She is exceedingly patient and supportive, and I’m so grateful for the impact she’s had on my health and happiness. Her professionalism, empathy, and practical wisdom has become such an important part of my life – I wouldn’t be the same without her!

– 20 something woman

“Dassy is truly wonderful. We feel lucky to have found her service. We came to her at the lowest, most difficult moment in our relationship. Over time, she has helped us not just heal from an acute struggle, but also grow into a stronger couple than ever before. She provides incredible sympathy, never places judgement, and explains helpful methods to navigate complicated feelings. We have grown tremendously with her support and would recommend her to anyone even remotely considering giving it a shot.”

-30 something couple

“Dassy has been incredibly instrumental in helping me grow and get through some really difficult times over the years. I initially came to her because I saw that one of the core issues she strives to help people with was in regards to LGBT+ issues and sexuality. I was going through an intense period of self-doubt, where I was questioning my own sexuality and identity and she helped guide me through not only discovering my self-truth, but also through a lot of difficulties I encountered after coming out and being honest with myself. Her methods are extremely kind and gentle, but she always ends the sessions with a little action item or affirmation, so I always feel like I’m coming away from my sessions with her, armed with a new tool in my arsenal of personal growth. She’s incredibly warm, accommodating, kind, and understanding, and I can’t thank her enough for the amount of time and energy she’s poured in to helping me over the years. She’s truly & honestly the best therapist I’ve ever had, and I highly recommend her to anyone looking for a bit of kindness & light to help guide them through their own personal darkness.”

-20 something woman